AFG 2575 Shankar Narayan







Name:           Shankar Narayan
AFG:               2575
Nickname:   Shanks (the hostel nickname cannot be put out in public)
DOB:              11 Aug 1964
DOM:                        10 Jun 1994
Address:       INHS Asvini, Colaba, Mumbai – 400 005
Email:            drshankarnarayan@gmail.com
Mobile:         +91 9869444479

Spouse:         Surgeon Captain Navneet Nath, Pathologist in the Indian Navy

Daughter:    Nimisha Nat Narayan, 20 years in Fourth Year of BBA, LLB at Symbiosis Law School, NOIDA.


Others:         Fudge – male, pug, 6 years
                        Petals -  female, pug, 4 years
               
College Memories
Usually seen with :           Kaul, Lona, Sexy, Sany, Shukla, Sandha, Soodji, Rawat, Bhanu and many more (hostel); the Illad Gang of Vidya, Inji, MS, Shanmu, PC1 on Dadar Chennai Express and during vacations.

Usually seen at:                 Boys Hostel, Reidii, Insti, Girls Hostel, Srinath Chalachitra Mandir (Sunday morning shows of Shammi Kapoor movies), other movie theatres and at intercollege fests all over the country.

Never seen at:                   Library

Tongue in cheek moment:
                                                Had a patient with infertility in my final MBBS Gynec Exam and managed to reach up to Rubin Insufflation Test for Fallopian Tube patency when ABC asked me as to what I would do if one fallopian tube was blocked and the other open….instantaneous answer was “Sir, I would tell the couple to go home and try for a baby all over again”….the examiners laughed…my guess worked, got 27/50 in viva.

Best Moments:                  Too many to recount all but the best part was growing up with all of U.  Just so that I do not upset TC, I recount a few:
                                                1.        Joining AFMC and 5M7
                                                2.        Being spared ragging by Namby Senior (Q) because I was Illad and later, the same evening, being spared ragging by Bagchi (Q) because I could speak Bong
                                                3.        First MB Physiology viva where unexpectedly got a ‘D’
                                                4.        Bunking clinics in second MB
                                                5.        Buying chocolates on return trip after forensic autopsy at BJ
                                                6.        In retrospect, highly pointless but interesting discussions on a wide range of topics including whether a tractor has proper brakes, Buddha and his philosophy of life, Pay packets of movie stars, World Cups (football and cricket) and the like, all indulged in to avoid studying (and remember, we did not have google to resolve arguments by resorting to facts!)
                                                7.        Running to Mains to get Free Shots published on time, great teamwork with Sany, Viqi, DJ and a host of others                        
                                                8.        Elections, campaigning, planning parties, destabilizing opponents’ campaigns
                                                9.        Requesting Col Rajoo for his liquor book to meet our alcohol requirements, rest met by Creswell….
                                                10.      Holi when Lona made Bhang loaded Thandai and we slept for days together after consuming that potent stuff
                                                11.      Playing pranks on others including Rock in combination with Bhalla, Sood and party
                                                12.      Strike and the raid on the Insti
                                                13.      The Socials and Election Parties
                                                14.      Outstation Festivals where we had great fun
                                                15.      College Colours for Literary Activities
                                                16.      Becoming Hobbies Club Secretary and College Photographer, latter giving access to may otherwise ‘out of bounds’ areas including inside Girls Hostel
                                                17.      Learning how to play Squash ably tutored by Mandy.
                                                18.      Slapping Dinesh Kapoor (V) in U block for playing cricket and disturbing us in 6 term and subsequently convincing Rock to admonish him, in the latter activity, silently supported by Suri, Rawat, Sandha by their mere intimidating presence and Rock quickly taking my side!!
                                                19.      Mrs Ranganathan in Dean’s Office telling me that I had passed Final MBBS
                                                20.      Mattu (Sunil Kumar Pandurang Matwankar) changing my choice of Navy to Army just a day before the list was to be sent to Delhi for final approval and on coming to know of this, I met Col Bhalla (Vijay’s Dad) and explained the situation who then blasted Mattu and ensured I got the Navy, for which I am ever grateful to him. May God Bless His Soul.

Favourite Teacher:           Almost all of them, unfair to name only a few

What I would change about myself:   If back in college, I would do all those things I did all over again in the same way, no regrets on any issue

Wish I could Change about AFMC:      Reintroduce Elections

If I was not a Doctor:        I had joined BA (English Hons) in St Xavier’s Calcutta while on waitlist for AFMC, probably would have gone on to become a journalist or joined the Civil Services

Journey through AFMC:  Great.  Joined late and got my zero cut, black and whites fresher outfit, later got uniform from Vidapati, Term badges, Apron with the black buttons, Sanjeev Saxena and Harninder Singh in 5M7 as roomies.  I think, looking at Sexy’s and my wayward ways, Harni saw no future in staying with us and Kaul joined us the next term as an occasional rum sipper….
                                                For a gawky late teen who had no connection with the Services and had stayed all his life in one place, was thrown into the melting pot of batchmates from different parts of the country, different customs, different tales…was an amazing experience.  And who can forget the numerous expletives that one picked up in different languages and dialects!!
                                                The afternoons in the Dissection Hall, the ragging which later ensured I had friends amongst seniors, the various activities in and outside the hostel, managing on the shoe-string budget far away from home, donating blood for Rs 20/- if the bank balance fell short, exploring Pune…and finally, somehow clearing First MB.
                                                Second Prof brought with it more confidence and self-belief in myself and the knowledge that I could rely on each one of U. There was no looking back thereafter.  The reticent, somewhat shy and a little under-confident me was transformed………Socials, Elections, Inter-batch Competitions, BB Week, GH visits and Fests like Mood I, Mardi Gras, Pulse, Tarang, etc., where apart from keeping the College flag flying high, experienced personal highs also, courtesy some good quality (?Yakub?) “stuff” being passed around.
                                                College life was full of many individual events which meshed together and formed the fabric of our togetherness.  Despite the fact that there were some who objected to the doles handed out to prospective voters in elections, notwithstanding the severe disapproval (by some) of late night Anat break-ins to see specimens and handing over “considerations” to Kamble at his humble abode for the Biochem practicals, despite many of us earning the wrath of Micro demos for identifying a guinea pig as a rabbit or vice versa in the exam (still don’t know what the hell it was)….we managed as a great batch….
                                                And that was the magic.  Like I said, many incidents.  Including one class on Communicable Diseases where Brig Dutta (some of us are Brigs today!!) walked in and condescendingly asked the class to name three communicable diseases…..”Rabies, Scabies and Babies” was the answer from a last bencher leading to a walk-out by Brig Dutta followed by freak-out at Dinesh’s college branch of the Insti…..to date Aggie denies he was the back bencher who made that famous statement….
                                                The good that happened is remembered and rightly so.  Like I said, growing up together, playing pranks on each other (including hiding Suman Murthy’s uniform when she had changed into scrubs and was inside the OT….and Suman, promise I did not do it and I seriously do not know the guy who did it)..chucking eggs, fights over football matches..
                                                Drams Club and Valsan being told by SBD to “eemprooobh hees dheekshan”….Strike, Rahul Theatre, Empress Garden stabbing, GAS Chamber (Ghatak, Acharya and Sany’s room), Dhanvantari, Photography, Art Centre, 5 Star Stationers (Anoop is still a good friend and we are on Whatsapp), Sliver Inn famous Butter Chicken with eosin as colouring agent, Marzorin, Manneys and I can go on and on….not to miss the famous Srinath Chalachitra Mandir on the infamous Budhwarpeth which screened Shammi Kapoor movies at 1100 hrs every Sunday…
                                                Probably the only constants in this ever changing whirlpool of events were U batch winning everything in sight every time and BKG consistently topping being given a close run by Addu, Suman Murthy, Jasmina, KK, Inji and the like….
                                                Time flew, and many liaisons in the Boys’ as well as Girls’ Hostels later, the day came when I was told it was time to move on…..glad at clearing the Final MB but sad to leave college…..this period saw a large number of nights and days being dedicated to alcoholic binges and story telling sessions…finally leading out to the PoP and donning whites.
                                                What a journey….I am sure I have left out many events, many places and most importantly, many of U but then, you cannot compress a lifetime of experiences into a few words….

Journey so far:                   Joined Asvini for Internship along with Inji, Ahlu, Mani TC (in OGs) and Goyle; Jackie, Muttu and Mohit joined soon. Great time with work as well as fun including exploring the Bombay of those days…
                                                After completing MOBC 99 with majority of U, posted to INS Ganga, a frigate where I learnt to stand up to the non-medical officers who try to dominate doctors…then on to INS Rana, a destroyer where I managed to do a course on computers (in the days of the double-sided, double density 3.5 inch floppy disks) followed by Introductory Course in Aviation Medicine with Sexy, ArJo et al.  Lot of chopper rides from ship and many photographs later, while on Rana, appeared for PG entrance the first time but did not make it.  This was also the time when we use to intermittently habitate Goyle’s room in the WNC Mess on weekends while he pursued his amorous interests elsewhere and every day that Jackie, Muttu and I were ashore, would land up at the Shamiana (iconic coffee shop at Taj Mahal Hotel). Years later, in 2015, the same trio of Jackie, Muttu and me went looking for Annie Briganza, the hostess at Shamiana during those days whom we had nicknamed Sunshine……only to realize life had moved on and so had Annie….
                                                After almost three years afloat, posted back to Asvini for a short while when Cutts (RJ) joined us in whites.  Soon thereafter, moved off to the Coast Guard at Porbandar where Lona landed up one fine day from Jamnagar on his Bullet and we finished a bottle of White Horse scotch between the two of us that evening.  Joined PG in Pediatrics at AFMC, met Navneet who was doing her PG in Pathology, fell in love and the rest is history including my by now reasonable fluency in Punjabi…..
                                            
    Navneet joined the Navy, we got married in Pune, moved to Vizag and managed to negotiate the first specialist posting well with a new NICU constructed and equipped there and CNS commendations for the Wardmaster, the Pediatric NO and myself in that order. It was during this time that our daughter, Nimisha was born and I attended the LSCS, being the only Pediatrician….parenthood was fun….Moved to Port Blair after three years in Vizag where we had a whale of a time throughout with special fun when Jackie came on temporary duty once.  Moved to AIIMS in Delhi for Neonatology following which back to Asvini, and along with the professional work was roped into MES related works by the CO (Adm VK Singh!!)….learnt a lot, oversaw construction details of the new hospital building from users point of view and had the first coffee table book on Asvini published. Picked up second CNS commendation in this tenure.
                                                Moved to AHRR and was off to Kings College Hospital London for training in Liver Transplantation, was part of the original transplant team at AHRR, provided the before and after care for the first successful pediatric liver transplant in the Armed Forces and also held the record for the youngest kid transplanted (11 months) for a few months till Appollo Hospital beat us to it by transplanting a 7 month old.  Has an extremely satisfying tenure at AHRR where I picked up my Senior Advisor post. This was followed by four years in Vizag where was involved with the planning of the new 604 bedded Command Hospital…again learnt a lot.  Nimisha joined Law School from Vizag after her 12th.
                                                Sep 2013, at Asvini as Prof and HoD, was awarded the VSM, continuing there as Consultant since Jun 16.
                                                Navneet, all this while, has been admirably doing her major bit at work and on the home front; she was the first lady to lead a platoon in a ceremonial parade in the Navy, was part of a team that circumnavigated the globe on the tall ship INS Tarangini and has been her usual self, full of life. All this she manages while looking after the two of us!!!
                                                I have knowingly left out the many interactions that we have had with many of U and the extended U family because of major limitations of space but would be willing to recount them in Goa!
                                                Over the years, the one thing which has never ceased to amaze me is the fact that I have, to date, never heard anyone talk even slightly adversely about any of U….both up and down the seniority ladder….that speaks volumes about each and every one of Us.  I am very grateful to have been made a part of U and live a contended life with the knowledge that this support system will always be there for me and my family.

Where I see myself in the next ten years:   Leading a retired life; no 8th pay commission for me!!!

Acknowledgement:          My heartfelt gratitude to TC without whose persistent gentle nudging, I would not have blabbered so much. Girl, where were you all these years???!!!!
                                               

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